9 Tricks to Create an Insanely Unfair Advantage in Your Life
(Pssst, less than 2% of people do these)
Be a 'top-level asker.'
Many fear approaching important, high-status, or attractive individuals for favors. They fear rejection and doubt their chances of success. However, successful people understand that receiving a "no" doesn't harm them as long as they can accept it and move on. So they ask for help from thirty individuals who may seem "out of their league" and receive one favorable response. That one positive response gives them an advantage.
Presuppose greatness.
Most people view success as setting goals to achieve what they want. However, those who genuinely succeed understand that goals are not just destinations to reach but a mindset to adopt. By acting as though you already have what you want from the moment you wake up, you can immediately join the top 2%.
Simplify daily.
If you want to make your life more difficult, one surefire way to do it is by needlessly complicating things.
Most people tend to accumulate things, but you stand out by prioritizing simplicity as a daily habit and consistently removing unnecessary items. Then, cut, cut, and cut some more. Apply this mindset to all areas of your life. Then, while others struggle with "heavy baggage," you'll easily breeze through the race.
Prioritize uncomfortable conversations.
Many people stuck in life tend to avoid communicating what they truly mean. Unfortunately, this is a common issue that many individuals face. Not communicating effectively can feel like you're trapped in stagnation. However, if you want to get ahead in life, you must be prepared to speak up and say things that may feel uncomfortable. Those brave enough to communicate honestly are often rewarded by reality, whether in a sales pitch, sharing their true thoughts online, asking for something big, or even telling someone they need to move on.
Be aggressively countercultural.
Successful individuals understand that they cannot follow the crowd if they want to leave a lasting legacy. Gathering information on what the majority recommends is beneficial, but it's essential to be proactive and do the opposite.
Choose bigger problems.
As you climb the hierarchy, your problems don't decrease; they appear to become more significant. No matter what path you choose in life, you will encounter obstacles. Therefore, it's best to face bigger problems. Why? Because the size of a problem indicates the scale of the game, you're playing. In addition, the top 2% are aware that problems are primarily a mental construct, so they are comfortable taking on significant challenges.
Create mystery.
Individuals who amass a significant following and influence the world often possess an unpredictable nature. They skillfully blend an air of mystery into their public image and personal brand, never revealing all of their cards and consistently surprising others with their actions. This unpredictability holds a strong allure for many.
Commit to becoming elite in one thing.
It may seem like heresy in a world full of endless options, but many people are stuck and unhappy because they can't make decisions or stick to one thing long enough to truly excel. To avoid this, choosing something and committing to it with focus and determination is essential.
Biased to what's working.
One simple yet often overlooked practice is to identify what works well in your life and make the most of it. By prioritizing what works for you and brings you joy, you can easily chart your path to success. Remember, the key is to triple down on what works, what inspires you, and what you do well at. This is the surefire way to win.